Her taking orders = depends upon the situation. She can be serious and listen if it's a dire situation, or at least be willing to consider his suggestions. Sometimes.

If he ever tells her about the Er'ouy daed taem spell, she'll laugh and ask how many times the other her must've said it to him for him to learn.

If he ever even begins to mention Identity Crisis...WHELP. /ollies out. not like the archer